Check Out These Top 5 Tips Straight From The Expert!
1. Talk dirty
This is one of Bratton’s favorite tips because it’s easy and it works. “Dirty talk is the easiest way to introduce novelty and excitement into your lovemaking,” she says. “It doesn’t require anything other than your imagination and your voice.” So go ahead and tell your partner exactly what you want to do to them—they’ll love it.
2. Use props
Want to add a little extra excitement to your sex life? Reach for some props! Bratton suggests using things like blindfolds, feathers, ice cubes, and even whipped cream to spice things up. “When you use props, you’re expanding your repertoire of sexual behaviors,” she says. “And that can lead to more pleasure for both of you.”
3. Be adventurous
Trying new things in the bedroom can be daunting, but it’s also incredibly rewarding. If you’re looking to add some adventure to your sex life, Bratton suggests experimenting with role-playing, anal play, bondage, or even something as simple as a new position. No matter what you try, the important thing is that you’re both having fun—and enjoying yourselves along the way.
4. Communicate openly
Good communication is key in any relationship—and that includes sexual relationships! If you’re not sure what your partner likes or dislikes in bed, just ask them. Broaching the topic can be awkward, but it’s worth it if it means enjoyable (and consensual) sex for both of you.
5. Be present
When you’re having sex, it’s important to be present in the moment—both mentally and physically. This means putting away your phone, forgetting about work stressors, and really focusing on your partner and the pleasure you’re both experiencing. “Being present during sex helps you connect with your partner on a deeper level,” says Bratton. “And that connection is what leads to truly mind-blowing sex
So there you have it—Susan Bratton’s top 5 tips for mind-blowing sex straight from the expert herself!
If you’re looking to add a little extra excitement to your bedroom (and let’s face it, who isn’t?), then these tips are definitely worth trying out.
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